Across India, self-dates are replacing candlelit couple rituals for V-Day.Once reserved for couples, Valentine’s Day is taking on a broader meaning. Singles are redefining the day, marking the occasion with solo outings, workshops, and quiet rituals. This shift reflects a growing comfort: celebrating one’s own company is becoming just as meaningful as companionship.
‘Don’t feel the need to live up to the expectation of doing something special’For many 20-somethings, celebrating Valentine’s Day is more about getting comfortable with their own company. “Earlier, Valentine’s Day meant asking someone out. This time, it’s different. I don’t feel the need to ask someone out or give in to the expectation of doing something special on Valentine’s Day,” says Bhargav Yeragi, a 26-year-old data scientist, who is currently travelling solo across the country on his motorcycle. Dimpy Singh, a 23-year-old content creator, echoes the sentiment: “I enjoy celebrating such days on my own because I’ve grown comfortable and happy in my own company since being single. What started as an awkward experience after being stood up once, turned into a habit of solo dates, solo trips, and watching films alone. Being alone gives me the freedom, and space to understand myself better.”
‘The definition of love is expanding’Sonali Mangal, a psychologist, believes this shift reflects a broader redefinition of love itself. “Gen Z is expanding the definition of love beyond romantic relationships. It now includes friends, siblings, family, and also yourself.” Solo celebrations are less about detachment and more about self-exploration. “It doesn’t mean you love others less. It simply means you acknowledge yourself as an individual.” However, Dr Swetha Agarwal, a psychologist, adds a note of balance. While self-love is vital, she cautions against total isolation. “Emotional independence is healthy to a level, but not as a permanent state,” she explains, adding “At some stage, we all need emotional attachment — whether that comes from a partner, a friend, or family.”
The ‘me’ economy: Brands bet on the solo date trend
- Cadbury 5 Star ran Valentine’s campaigns such as the ‘Alibi’ island for singles and sponsored dates for couples only to later prank them, positioning opting out of traditional celebrations as an alternative way to mark the day.
- Faasos continued its Date A Wrap campaign in its fifth edition this year, highlighting independence and presenting its wraps as an option for singles and informal Valentine’s plans.
- Blinkit introduced a Single Mode toggle in 2026 during the Valentine’s period, allowing users to switch modes and acknowledging solo consumers.
- PepsiCo India (Pepsi) launched Swag Se Solo in 2020 featuring actor Salman Khan, framing singlehood as a confident choice during Valentine’s promotions.
I often spend Valentine’s Day alone. What I do depends on my mood. I do enjoy creative workshops, spending time on my hobbies. While social media did influence me initially, solo outings have become more intentional for me over time. What once felt like loneliness has now become something I’ve learned to enjoy. Going out alone helps me feel connected to myself and others, and practising self-love this way feels more meaningful
Subhiksha Raman, 26-year-old author and junior art director
I celebrate Valentine’s Day solo or with a friend. The first time Iwent out alone, I indulged myself and it boosted my confidence. It’s important to enjoy your own company, without worrying about how others perceive you
Shital Bhuta, an educator in her late 40s
- 37% of all Valentine’s Day posts in India now centre on ‘Singles and Self-Love’ outperforming traditional couple-centric content, which accounts for 35%
- — As per a report by creator platform Qoruz
- 86% of Indian women surveyed are choosing to be happier with who they are in the present rather than constantly striving to self-optimise for dating
- – As per Bumble’s study on ‘betterment burnout’ (2024)
- 40% people said they associate Valentine’s Day with self-love and self-care
- – As per a new consumer study by Hansa Research (2026)
- 30k+ restaurants now offer the ‘Table for One’ feature on District by Zomato. It was launched in October 2025, after user feedback about solo dining reservations
- As per Tinder Year in Swipe 2025 report, singles are embracing clarity, emotional honesty and low-pressure connections, redefining romance on their own terms — a cultural shift that makes solo, self-defined Valentine’s celebrations increasingly relevant
- Solo trips and independent café outings are being observed around Valentine’s Day, with individuals choosing to spend time on their own
- Creative activities and self-gifting are among the ways some singles are marking Valentine’s Day, using the occasion to treat themselves
