For 15 days from Sept 27 to Oct 10, many Hindu families will observe Mahalaya Paksha, a period dedicated to remembering and expressing gratitude to departed ancestors and elders.According to the Hindu lunar calendar, the period falls in the second half of Bhadrapada and is observed across India. It is considered an important time to perform Mahalaya Shraddha for those who have passed away. While regular Shraddha is generally performed for parents or particular family members on a specific day, Mahalaya Shraddha provides an opportunity to remember several generations of ancestors.The remembrance can extend beyond parents and grandparents to maternal and paternal relatives, including uncles and other family members. It can also include a spouse’s parents and relatives. Teachers, family gurus and friends who contributed to a person’s life can also be remembered. The tradition can even extend to animals such as cows and dogs, as well as people who served the family.Pinda Pradhana and Tarpana are among the main rituals performed during this period. In southern India, Pindas are generally made using rice, while wheat flour is used in some parts of northern India. Tarpana involves making offerings while reciting the names and gotras of the departed. Black sesame or til is also used in the ritual. The offerings and processes may vary slightly across regions, but the practice of remembering and expressing gratitude remains central.Food is another important part of the observance. Families may offer food that was particularly liked by the departed person. According to some traditions, this can include non-vegetarian food and even alcohol if these were among the person’s preferences.The 15-day period is traditionally not considered suitable for other auspicious activities. Many families avoid weddings, inaugurations, and house-related ceremonies during this time. Some also refrain from buying new clothes or vehicles or moving into a new house.Charity and service to others are also considered important. Providing food and clothes to those in need and undertaking community service are ways in which people observe the period.Remembering and expressing gratitude to those who have passed away is not limited to one community or region. Different religions and cultures have their own ways of remembering the departed. In the Hindu tradition, Mahalaya Paksha provides a dedicated period to remember ancestors and others who have contributed to one’s life, and to pray for the departed soul to attain moksha.(Daivajna Somayaji is also Sringeri Sharada Peetha Dharmadhikari)
